As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a lovely woman who lacks discretion. Proverbs 11:22
Lacks: showing lack of it, turning aside
Discretion: judgement, discernment, intelligence, understanding
Discretion: the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid revealing private information
ABC's. Actions. Attitude. Appearance.
Each "A" reveals much about a person.
ABC's: spoken and written words, including texts, tweets, likes, shares.
Actions: everyday daily actions whether at home or out.
Attitude: is often reflected in ones body language (facial expressions, etc).
Appearance: what we are wearing and how we conduct ourselves.
A LOVELY (beautiful, goodly, pleasant) woman who lacks discretion is no better than a pig with a gold ring in its nose. A pig "dressed up" with a gold ring—is still a dirty animal. A woman may look beautiful, but if she makes bad judgements or choices—she reveals her heart.
We know many people whom we wouldn't necessarily say are "beautiful", but they have a genuine beauty about them—literally from inside. Their spirit shines forth and they glorify God in all the "A"s.
In order for one to exercise discretion in all the "A"s, it begins when a heart is permeated with a deep sense of reverence for God (Acts 9:31 MSG). For when a heart recognizes who God is and respects and fears Him — then wisdom and understanding are expressed in all aspects of one's life.
The "A"s—ABC's, Actions, Attitude, and Appearance — all are effected by wisdom. When wisdom present then godly beauty shines forth.